tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047525872429535333.post6263508184220022784..comments2016-03-02T11:45:54.172+00:00Comments on Pratikisms: Letting go is for laters!DesiGirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09719027278943104286noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047525872429535333.post-90375870472774027812007-05-30T09:35:00.000+01:002007-05-30T09:35:00.000+01:00Gauri,Thanks! I am repeatedly telling myself not t...Gauri,<BR/>Thanks! I am repeatedly telling myself not to give in to the EA, like you say. Not easy, eh?DesiGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09719027278943104286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047525872429535333.post-13015330790010361062007-05-30T08:16:00.000+01:002007-05-30T08:16:00.000+01:00I'd tend to agree with Rohini. Do it when you are...I'd tend to agree with Rohini. Do it when you are comfortable with the idea. Basically don't force urself into it or rather don't put urself into a corner just because someone is feeding you a lot of EA (emotional attacks).Gaurihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05715712617305066550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047525872429535333.post-25201215003981361432007-05-24T09:17:00.000+01:002007-05-24T09:17:00.000+01:00Rohini, Sunita & itchy,Thank you all for your comm...Rohini, Sunita & itchy,<BR/>Thank you all for your comments. Like you say, until I am ready I am not going to force it. But when the subtle guilt is being fed it is rather hard to rake a stand.<BR/>But thank you for your wonderful words! Insecure mums - we should form a club!! <BR/>:)DesiGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09719027278943104286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047525872429535333.post-48260745198751963152007-05-23T06:56:00.000+01:002007-05-23T06:56:00.000+01:00no you are not .. being clingy i mean.. I too hav ...no you are not .. being clingy i mean.. I too hav strong views against letting them stay away in the nite.. though she insists taking one of them away everytime K is travelling as it is dificult to make them sleep together. but even if i hav to stay awake the entire nite i do not let go. except off course when i am travelling- happened that twice/. take it easy. do it when u r ready. and never feel uncertain abt your child's love for u. it is too strong and inherent to be gone just by staying away for a day... rather night... ok.. what am i preaching.. i must be one of the most insecure moms in the whole world!!Itchingtowritehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00763940951418027045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047525872429535333.post-67228783653632434042007-05-23T06:06:00.000+01:002007-05-23T06:06:00.000+01:00I can so relate to what you saying here. my mil ha...I can so relate to what you saying here. my mil had plans of going off for a vacation to our native place with my not-even-a-year baby. can you imagine?? ofcourse I argued & yelled back for that ridiculous offer. (but it was just a dig i realized latter)<BR/>Leaving our child in their care for x number of hours is very different from they taking our child off for a whole day or more.Sunitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07347370529459467244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047525872429535333.post-57926275743482919842007-05-22T19:10:00.000+01:002007-05-22T19:10:00.000+01:00Do it whenever you feel ready. Since I work, I lef...Do it whenever you feel ready. Since I work, I left Ayaan overnight when he was just over a year and despite all my anxiety and guilt, my husband and he got along quite fine without me.Rohinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234347487003665907noreply@blogger.com